There are two kinds of people in this world, writes Dr. Pat Aitcheson. The first go by the Irish principle of strangers being friends they haven’t met yet. And the second live by Sartre’s principle that hell is other people. Unfortunately for the latter, they also have to socialise at least occasionally. Aitcheson offers tips for making conversation better:
- Assume rapport
- Listen more
- Avoid interrogation
- Don’t choke
- There’s an art to delivery
- No monologues
- No open combat
- Steer clear of controversy
- Practice emotional intelligence
- Know your limits
Source: Medium, June 8, 2019. Link. Extroverts are energized by social contact, whereas introverts are drained by it. Both need other people to varying extents. For introverts, watch your energy levels and leave before you’re exhausted. Accept that you’ll need a period of withdrawal to recharge and work it into your schedule as a priority.
Life is all about making connections and that means being comfortable with social situations, whether you prefer talking or listening.